Monday, May 18, 2015

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Charles Jerome Ware, LLC is a premier, Maryland-based, divorce and family law firm. For an initial courtesy consultation, contact the firm at (410) 720-6129. The firm is ranked by its clients and peers as one of the "BEST 10" divorce and family law firms in Howard County. We can help you [ see, PRIMEBUYERS Report].

FACT:   The U.S. Census Bureau reports that 30.8 % of all marriages end in divorce.
FACT :  Regardless of what the involved parties say, all of these divorces are, at least in some degree, traumatic for them.
FACT:  "Self Doubt" is an understandable and significant feeling in divorce. As much information as possible is power to individuals involved in divorce.
FACT: When a marriage ends, spouses and their children frequently face huge stressful events such as relocation (new living arrangements), new parenting arrangements and schedules, decisions about marital property, family maintenance and money, etc.
FACT: The extreme and conflicting emotions caused by these severe changes can make it quite difficult for spouses to understand the rather complicated legal process of the divorce action and process, and frequently makes it difficult for the parties to make sound decisions.
FACT: Making it through a divorce can be more palatable if you are informed about the divorce process prior to its formal beginning.  Information is power in in this effort.

For example, consider the following tips:

(1)  Remember:  There are no winners and losers in divorce, only "survivors" and "victims".  Divorce is not a game or sport; it is an unfortunate life experience. Treat it as such, and seek to survive this process. Having an experienced and competent attorney representing you can be very helpful in this process.
(2)  Do not make important decisions about your divorce without thinking them through very carefully and discussing them with your attorney. As my beloved parents used to teach me: "Measure twice, cut once."
(3) Remember: It is you and your spouse who are getting the divorce, NOT YOUR CHILDREN.
Spare your children from hearing the venom and anger you may have towards your spouse. In fact, try to spare your children the pain and aggravation and harsh feelings --- period.
(4) Beware of  "rubberneckers", "gawkers",  self-professed (though untrained) "advisors", etc. These people are generally worth what you are paying them; which , hopefully, is nothing. Quite simply, do not believe everything other people are telling you who have divorced( and particularly be even more cautious about the advice of those who have not divorced) . In over 30 years of very successfully representing clients in divorce actions, I have observed that each and every divorce is unique in many ways.
(5) Despite the pain, the past is past. Despite the trauma, the present is just the present. Plan and prepare yourself  ( and your children, if any) for the future.. Seek out the "Big Picture".
Seek survival.  We can help you in this process.